Sunday, March 02, 2014


Cod drying on a clothesline

I spent a lot of time as a parent with adult children travelling with my father who was in the same, well, boat.

I love this 'destined to repeat' aspect of my life. For now I spend time, frivolous, playful time, with Daughter who is herself the mother of an adult child.

We were walking the roads today with Ansa and she linked me and stopped me dead in our tracks. And we looked down over the sunny sparkling bay with all the boats in a row nestled in the harbour, the two offshore islands with a red hulk of a barge lurking on the horizon, and she said: "My God Mum, we live in paradise."

And on the way back, we stopped in at friends who have been incredibly kind to me (and now to her) over the years. I had this small bag of boxed gourmet chocolates. Not too big a token, not too small. I felt it was just right. The couple were leaving to go visit her 90 year old mother but immediately threw their coats off and invited us in to their roaring fire where we cuddled with Jeff and Buddy, their large cat and small dog for a while.

So we get up and I was feeling that surge of joy one gets when you feel loved. For nothing really. Just for being yourself. This couple have always made me feel this way. I just look in their eyes and I feel loved. And I don't have to do anything for it. It is so very rare that feeling. And so treasured.

And here's where the humbling comes in. Daughter and I are leaving, hugging them goodbye, and we are each handed a bag of freshly caught halibut and a huge salted cod.

And we look at each other, tears in our eyes, as we drive off.

"I've never known people like this," says Daughter emotionally.

Me neither. Me neither. But I'm too full of gratitude to verbalize it properly. But this says it for me:

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Blogger Sandy aka Doris the Great said...

I know. I know.

Sun Mar 02, 11:48:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger Secret Agent Woman said...

Aw, sweet!

Mon Mar 03, 12:14:00 AM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous LadyLuz said...

Simply beautiful - all of it: the scenery, the song and the "touching souls" with your friends. A real lift on this (to me) dreary Monday. Thankyou.

Mon Mar 03, 12:33:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous Grannymar said...

You have found heaven on earth!

Mon Mar 03, 05:53:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger Hattie said...

Ah, you are lucky!

Mon Mar 03, 06:17:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods. said...

Such blessings you have
and what a wonderful land.
I smile for you...

Mon Mar 03, 07:08:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger Sharon said...

You have described the best feeling ever ~

Tue Mar 04, 02:14:00 AM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous whats the story in dalamory said...

What wonderful photos - and so like parts of Scotland and our Outer Hebrides.
But it is always the people that make the place.
Thank you for sharing.
Blessings from Dalamory

Tue Mar 04, 02:42:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous Linda P. said...

How wonderful those moments can be, when all is right with your world.

Tue Mar 04, 02:46:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger Friko said...

The kindness of strangers - or friends - as opposed to the ‘entitlement’ felt by (some) family members always astounds me.

I am also glad that both you and your daughter have eyes to see the beauty surrounding you. Seeing is not given to everyone, either.

Tue Mar 04, 04:59:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous Rummuser said...

You are blessed and I envy you the opportunities that come your way to be grateful.

Thu Mar 06, 08:57:00 AM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous nick said...

That's so sweet. That sort of comfortable, easy-going friendship is so precious.

Fri Mar 07, 11:18:00 AM GMT-3:30  
Blogger One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods. said...

Missing you...

Fri Mar 07, 06:39:00 PM GMT-3:30  
Blogger Maggie May said...

Loved that video and sharing the beautiful place where you live!
Maggie x

Nuts in May

Sat Mar 08, 11:12:00 AM GMT-3:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Loved the photo of the fish on the line. Have done that with salt pollock after dragging it home from the fish plant. Love salt fish and potatoes. Love salt herring laid on boiling potatoes so that it steams but does not fall apart.

Sun Mar 30, 03:22:00 PM GMT-2:30  

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